It’s Okay…Carry the Weight of the World on Your Shoulders!

IMG_20160202_151927In recent months, I have been posting pictures of my work attire on my personal social media accounts… not for validation, recognition, accolades, etc., but for Me.

I enjoy the process of getting dressed in the morning, and preparing myself for work. It is my goal to present myself in the best way possible to the daily world which I encounter.

In my line of work, I am in constant contact with clients (many of whom are millionaires), so professional presentation is key if I plan to be successful. I cannot exude confidence if I feel self-conscious, unsure, and uncomfortable… So I take the time, prepare myself for the day, and to date, it has seemed to work in my favor.

It reminds me of how we prepare ourselves for things in life. If we feel prepared, we will have a much better outlook on whatever tasks come our way, which leads to greater productivity, higher self esteem, and more confidence. Good personal appearance shows those with whom we interact that we care about ourselves, which (in many cases) can give positive perceptions, which many people correlate to our capabilities.

Some of us simply will not take the time to prepare ourselves for whatever opportunity may come, and then wonder “Why Them?” Or “Why not me?” Now, I am not saying that a suit and tie, or a good pair of shoes changes everything (because we must ensure that we are people of substance), but what I am trying to express is that judgement is a real part of life, and generally, people form their first judgement of us based on our appearance.  I truly believe, if you give your BEST to the world EVERYDAY, eventually it will return the favor.

If you aren’t doing so already, please start taking the time to prepare for the next opportunity in your life. Think about where you want to be, NOT where you are… take the necessary steps in that direction, and with planning, patience, and most importantly, prayer, YOU WILL GET THERE. Be Blessed!

(BTW…if you are still with me…this is my very first ‘Blog’)



4 thoughts on “It’s Okay…Carry the Weight of the World on Your Shoulders!

  1. Pingback: It’s Okay…Carry the Weight of the World on Your Shoulders! – BlackGQ

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